We are available, please toast us” — Nigerian lady laments over lack of men seeking serious relationships
A Nigerian lady has sparked conversations on social media after expressing frustration over what she described as the growing shortage of men willing to pursue serious relationships.
In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she questioned why many men no longer seem interested in asking women out, saying many single women are stuck in endless talking stages that never develop into committed relationships.
Speaking in Yoruba, she said:
“You men don’t want to get married again. Who exactly do you want to leave us for? At this point, I’m tired and confused. We that are single are very much available. Please, toast us.”
The lady added that she had initially promised herself not to speak publicly about the issue but decided to share her thoughts because of how disheartening she finds the current dating experience.
Her remarks have since sparked mixed reactions online, with some people agreeing that many relationships fail to progress beyond the talking stage, while others argued that changing expectations, finances, and personal priorities have reshaped modern dating.
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